We go against ourselves all the time without realizing it. We say we want one thing, but we do the exact opposite. Because our subconscious wants to protect us, it will fall back on what is known and familiar, even if it is painful and not at all what we want. Then we fight and wonder why nothing works. This is because we created it with our own thoughts, words and actions. The first agreement is to “be impeccable with your word.” It sounds very simple, but it`s very, very powerful. Why your word? Your Word is the power you must create. Your Word is the gift that comes directly from God. The Gospel of John in the Bible, which speaks of the creation of the universe, says, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word is God.” Little by little, these agreements weaken you, like poison. This first agreement calls us to be “impeccable” in our words. This is the agreement on which all other agreements are based. Just sticking to this agreement can change your life. The Word exists because of a force we call life, purpose, or God.
The Word is power; it is the intention, and therefore our intention manifests itself through the Word, regardless of the language we speak. The Word is so important in the creation of everything because the messenger begins to convey messages, and all creation appears out of nowhere. Dear Tracey, this is an important lesson for all of us. It is very difficult not to hide behind a facade to keep the peace or be accepted. But in the end, we are just deceiving ourselves. Words are important and determine our actions and behavior with others and with ourselves. I will pay attention to my words and write the words that are in my head to carefully improve my relationships. Thank you again for becoming aware of who we are and what we do. Antoinette 4) If you catch yourself chatting or being with others clapping or using black magic, move the conversation to something that would interest them in other ways.
Changing the subject in a positive way, WHITE MAGIC is a very powerful tool. I experienced great energy changes due to a quick change of subject in a lighter and more positive direction. Usually, you need to find a topic that is of positive interest to the person you are with. “Your beliefs become your thoughts. Your thoughts become your words. Your words become your deeds. Your actions become your habits. Your habits become your values. Your values become your destiny. Thank you for your comment. It means being impeccable with your word. 🙂 The list is supposed to include examples of when you are flawless and when you are not.
Often we don`t say how we feel, so waking up next to your partner may not be something you would normally say as long as you share the “joy” of having them there. 🙂 I also reread this part and I think I could have written it a little more clearly. 🙂In the book, Don Miguel Ruiz presents the idea that YOUR WORDS ARE MAGICAL. He goes on to explain that you can use your words for white magic; to create good in the world, or as black magic; create chaos and spread negativity. Use your words in a positive direction of truth and love. Grab your journal or download the printable PDF and answer the following questions: Do you want to know how to have a healthy relationship? Start by being impeccable with your word. Tell your truth. Even if it`s unpleasant. ESPECIALLY if it`s unpleasant. It`s a sign that you`re growing.
Keep your eyes on your words and record them. Do this every day and you will start noticing patterns. The word as a symbol has the magic and power of creation because it can reproduce an image, idea, feeling, or an entire story in your imagination. Just hearing the word horse can reproduce an entire image in your head. It is the power of a symbol. But it can be even more powerful than that. If you only say two words, The Godfather, an entire movie may appear in your head. It`s your magic, your creative power, and it starts with the Word. If you want to learn more about how to manage your words flawlessly, I`ve created a simple mini-course called Journaling Into Alignment that walks you through journaling on how to connect with yourself and your integrity.
This is an easy and powerful course to unleash your ability to adapt to your truth! Remember, you are a great Creator and you can choose to create your reality in joy. Using your thoughts and words like white magic and feeling good is the easiest and most effective way to create what you want. Want to learn more about how coaching can help you reconnect with your authentic self? Schedule a discovery call today and learn more about the coaching process! I really loved your take on the first deal! One question – could you explain why “I like to wake up next to you” is not impeccable with your word? ACTION EXERCISE: Tell at least one person you care about how you feel about them. This should make you uncomfortable, so say something you don`t normally say (i.e. I love you, I appreciate you, you make me happy, I`m grateful for you, I love your laughter, etc.). Go a step further by choosing someone you don`t usually express as a parent, sibling, friend or colleague. Whatever you say, make sure it`s true and focus on feeling it when you say it. The human mind is like fertile soil on which seeds are constantly planted. Seeds are opinions, ideas and concepts. You plant a seed, a thought, and it grows. The Word is like a seed, and the human spirit is so fruitful! The only problem is that it is too often fertile for the seeds of fear.
Every human spirit is fruitful, but only for the kind of seed for which it is prepared. It is important to see what kind of seed our mind is fertile for and prepare it to receive the seeds of love. God creates reality, and we recreate reality with the Word. .